Running away with the Spoon

Accidently found myself at a fist fucking work sho...

2009-07-04T06:09:17.084-04:00

Accidently found myself at a fist fucking work shop with my mom several years ago!!!

Long story!!!!

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Yep, the world may just explode - and can I say It...

2009-06-15T08:22:13.957-04:00

Yep, the world may just explode - and can I say It's a damn fine explosion when it does? ;-) fimg x

Whew! I'm shvitzing just reading this! Great entry...

2009-06-02T19:24:25.784-04:00

Whew! I'm shvitzing just reading this! Great entry, as always...

Well, can't say that this appeals to me...but then...

2009-06-01T19:36:05.324-04:00

Well, can't say that this appeals to me...but then I'm not known for my sexual appetite either.

This was one very yummy post. :)

2009-05-29T13:31:08.581-04:00

This was one very yummy post. :)

Maria, I agree that the first time I saw a weirdl...

2009-05-28T16:00:04.919-04:00

Maria,

I agree that the first time I saw a weirdly colored buzzing dildo, I did the same thing you did - wha huh? and burst out laughing. The first lover with whom I bought a dildo vibrator (18 years ago), ended up wearing it out using it to try to get a crick out her neck. (We didn't have a lot of sex)..This is why I tend toward the realistic cocks, and the packer is quite realistic (I am told), M bought it from a FTM site. Used only for fucking and sucking. We have a vibrator for vibrating. I don't think I could do swiveling pink porpoise fucking at this date. Yikes!

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Dr MacCool, Glad you enjoyed the post, I remain a...

2009-05-28T15:48:52.983-04:00

Dr MacCool,

Glad you enjoyed the post, I remain a major fan of yours.

Best wishes, again, on your achievement!

rs

pbd, I have to admit, you made me blush! That wa...

2009-05-28T15:47:50.997-04:00

pbd,

I have to admit, you made me blush! That was so sweet!

Always glad to see you, thanks for your comment.

rs

I just can't get into sex toys no matter what we t...

2009-05-28T08:09:14.618-04:00

I just can't get into sex toys no matter what we try. Maybe I'm not free spirited enough,not sure. Just know that the last time Bing tried to bring home a dildo, she turned it on and it was as loud as a mixer and I ended up bursting out laughing, which was not conducive AT ALL to lovemaking.

I pretty much just like she and I and a bed.

This is so cute/ hot. Aww it makes me want to send...

2009-05-26T13:20:37.237-04:00

This is so cute/ hot. Aww it makes me want to send you a toster.

very, very sexy. thanks for your comment over on m...

2009-05-24T14:46:28.585-04:00

very, very sexy. thanks for your comment over on mine. and, just catching up, thanks for reprinting the yeats poem too. in truth i don't read *enough* poetry.

Ugh. This is the hard part. It gets better..

2009-05-23T13:14:40.194-04:00

Ugh. This is the hard part. It gets better..

Diane, Thank your for your kind words and for you...

2009-05-22T19:34:23.239-04:00

Diane,

Thank your for your kind words and for your encouragement on the last post. I did actually seem to be what opened the flood on my posting again, so thank you, especially, for that.

i found your closing words very moving and truthfu...

2009-05-21T23:54:09.316-04:00

i found your closing words very moving and truthful. it's good to know you're doing ok, and i hope each day gets better for you.

miss your blog entries...hope you'll be back to bl...

2009-05-19T17:59:38.203-04:00

miss your blog entries...hope you'll be back to blogging soon!

Good luck, I'm sure you'll have many good times le...

2009-04-18T06:30:00.000-04:00

Good luck, I'm sure you'll have many good times learning all the new skills.

Congrats on your emancipation! And may I say, (as ...

2009-04-18T03:33:00.000-04:00

Congrats on your emancipation! And may I say, (as a femme who was once clueless about home repairs and now has a cool collection of power tools) that I highly recommend having a go. It's never made me feel macho but it does make me feel competent and STRONG. Oh and I look cute in a toolbelt :-) fimg xx

Shocks! You old romantic you! I love poetry too S...

2009-04-15T11:59:00.000-04:00

Shocks! You old romantic you!

I love poetry too Spoon- I used to write a fair bit (usually in my darker moments- of which are very few and far between nowadays).

It's something though that I don't think I'd ever share- as feels very personal.

I love your Yeats poem- although I don't need to woo QR I think I'll recite a line or two later to her

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hi grrl, here's a link to a website that might hel...

2009-04-15T00:38:00.000-04:00

hi grrl, here's a link to a website that might help, just for starters:

http://www.usersmanualguide.com/

and here's wishing you the best of luck and happiness in your new=found freedom...

so beautifully written. i hope m will see your poi...

2009-04-15T00:13:00.000-04:00

so beautifully written. i hope m will see your point of view. you are a tender soul and patient. this fine quality will someday benefit m as well as g. as long as you are safe, i hope m will not be so hurt and will see this as the lovely, transformative thing it is. good luck to you both :)

Yes, we are two very different people (I assume yo...

2009-04-07T01:37:00.000-04:00

Yes, we are two very different people (I assume you mean M & me), and after this very difficult interaction (reeling from which I wrote the post and she read it) we talked. It is, frankly, what we do best. And this ability to talk through some very significant differences in our personalities and styles, this shared belief that what separates this relationship from each of our past relationships is our ability and our courage to talk, is the glue that keeps us together through many daunting and difficult challenges.

I am not usually one to give into a low point, but I guess breaking up with one person and beginning a new relationship with another, in such overlapping order, is sometimes a bit too much stress, even for me. And I do wish to mindful of the stress this puts on M, as well.

And I agree that it is always important to face issues, and never to set them aside for "later" unless later is the next morning & you know that you are both committed to being there together. I suspect the success in a relationship is not that you never fight or fail at times (human nature), but how you recover and heal and mend together. We become stronger with each hurdle we help each over. My relationship with M is more conscious and intentional than any I think I have ever been in before, and know this is true for her as well.

Thanks for taking the time to read and comment, I do appreciate your thoughts and advice.

You are two different people with two different pe...

2009-04-06T19:52:00.000-04:00

You are two different people with two different personalities and it sounds as if jealousy is rearing it's ugly head to boot.

Crack through those arguments now because if you don't learn to negotiate, they will sprout up sooner rather than later.

Sit down and talk. Get it over with and figure out what your approach will be and then do it. You don't want this set of problems to follow you into the relationship.

yay! look forward to your next post...:)

2009-04-03T14:45:00.000-04:00

yay! look forward to your next post...:)

Just went for a spin at "just eat..." what a delig...

2009-04-03T12:59:00.000-04:00

Just went for a spin at "just eat..." what a delightful blog, thanks for the heads up, and of course janet at mid-life has an always intriguing diary. I'll tag them and see.

Thanks for your great suggestions.

Sorry for the delay in responding, the painters blew a fuse that caused an intermittent (ugh) failure in a fuse in a power strip that runs the router that I have only now discovered (!!! yay!) as the source of the connection problem and remedied. So I am back online.

may i suggest tags? there's janet at mid-lifeclari...

2009-04-02T11:14:00.000-04:00

may i suggest tags? there's janet at mid-lifeclarity.blogspot.com, and maria at just-eat-your-cupcake.blogspot.com. if you don't already know them, i think you'd like them...